Right Action in Yoga: How to Cultivate What Matters

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Most of us don’t have an action problem. We have an alignment problem.

We stay busy. We check the boxes. We do all the things we think we’re supposed to do — and still feel like something essential is missing. Like we’re tending someone else’s garden.

In yoga philosophy, this is exactly the problem that the concept of right action — known in Sanskrit as Satya-driven karma, or more personally as Svadharma — is designed to solve. And this spring, after weeks of clearing space, releasing what no longer serves us, and getting honest about what we actually want — it’s time to choose what we plant.

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This post is a deep dive into what right action means, why it’s more relevant than ever, and how you can begin practicing it — on your mat, in your garden, and in your everyday life.

What Is Right Action? The Yoga Philosophy Explained

The concept of right action comes most powerfully from the Bhagavad Gita, one of yoga’s foundational texts. In it, the god Krishna counsels the warrior Arjuna who is paralyzed by doubt before battle. Arjuna can’t act — not because he lacks ability, but because he’s confused about what’s truly his to do.

Krishna’s teaching is radical: act from your dharma. Do what is yours to do. And release attachment to the outcome.

This isn’t passivity. It’s precision.

The Two Sanskrit Roots Worth Knowing

Satya — truth. In action, Satya means acting from what is actually true for you — not what looks good, performs well, or pleases others. Right action is honest action.

Svadharma — your own path, your own duty. The Gita is clear: it’s better to do your own dharma imperfectly than someone else’s perfectly. Right action is personal. It belongs to you.

Together, these concepts point to the same truth: intentional, aligned action — chosen from your own values, not borrowed from someone else’s expectations — is the foundation of a meaningful life.

Why This Matters in Spring (and Why Now)

Spring is not a metaphor. It’s a biological and energetic reality. Everything in the natural world is making choices right now — which shoots to push through the soil, which branches to extend, where to direct energy.

Plants don’t grow in every direction at once. They follow the light. They go where conditions are right. They don’t waste resources on ground that can’t support them.

That’s right action. That’s what we’ve been building toward for four weeks.

  • Week 1: Showing up — committing to presence
  • Week 2: Breathing through it — finding steadiness in discomfort
  • Week 3: Clearing — releasing what no longer serves us
  • Week 4: Right action — choosing what we actually want to grow

The clearing was essential. You can’t plant in cluttered soil. But clearing isn’t the destination — it’s the preparation. During the week of self-study, we really looked at what was getting in the way.

What Right Action Is NOT

Before we talk about what right action looks like in practice, let’s clear up a few common misconceptions.

It’s not productivity.

Right action is not about doing more. Our culture confuses busyness with purpose. But the Gita is clear: it’s not the quantity of action that matters, it’s the quality of alignment. A single truthful action is worth a thousand unconscious habits.

It’s not perfection.

Svadharma says: your own imperfect path beats someone else’s perfect one. Right action doesn’t require certainty. It requires honesty. You don’t have to know the whole route — you just have to take the next true step.

It’s not forcing.

A gardener cannot make it rain. She can prepare the soil, plant the seed, water consistently, and protect what’s growing — but she cannot force the bloom. Right action works with natural timing, not against it.

What Right Action DOES Look Like

Here’s where it gets practical. Because this isn’t just philosophy — it’s a daily practice.

In your morning.

Right action can be as simple as one honest choice before you reach for your phone. One breath. One question: what actually matters today? Not what’s on the list. Not what you think you should do. What’s yours?

In your garden (literally)

If you garden, you already know this practice. Every spring, you choose what to plant based on what you love, what your soil can support, and what you actually want to tend all season. You don’t plant everything. You choose.

That’s Svadharma in action. Intentional selection. Faithful tending. Trust in the timing.

In your yoga practice

Right action on the mat looks like choosing the modification that’s honest for your body today — not the one that looks impressive, and not the one that shrinks you unnecessarily small. It’s listening, then responding. Not performing, not collapsing.

With your dog (yes, really).

My dog Rosie has never once questioned whether she should go outside. She just goes. Full commitment, zero second-guessing, complete presence in each moment. Animals practice right action instinctively. We have to practice it deliberately. But the capacity is already there.

Three Questions for Right Action

Before you move on anything this week — a conversation, a commitment, a creative project — try pausing with these three questions:

  1. Is this mine to do? (Or am I doing it because I think I should, or because someone expects it?)
  2. Is this action aligned with what I actually want to grow?
  3. Am I acting from fear and urgency — or from genuine intention?

You don’t need to answer perfectly. You just need to ask. That pause — that breath of honest inquiry — is itself a form of right action.

A Simple Practice: The Gardener’s Meditation

This week, try this brief grounding practice each morning before you start your day:

  • Find a quiet moment — standing in your garden, holding your coffee, or sitting in stillness before the day begins.
  • Take three slow breaths.
  • Ask: What do I want to cultivate today?
  • Let one honest answer arise. Don’t edit it.
  • Then ask: What is one aligned action I can take in that direction?
  • Take that action before noon.

That’s it. Simple. Repeatable. Powerful over time.

This Is How Growth Actually Happens

We tend to imagine growth as dramatic — a breakthrough, a revelation, a sudden transformation. But in yoga, and in nature, growth happens through faithful small actions, repeated over time, in alignment with what’s true.

The tree that survives the storm wasn’t born strong. It grew strong through seasons of small growth, deep roots, and incremental reaching toward light.

That’s what these four weeks have been building. Not a sudden change — a strong foundation.

The soil is ready. The space is clear. Now we choose what we plant — and we tend it, faithfully, one right action at a time.

Your Journaling Prompt for This Week

What have I been doing on autopilot that no longer reflects what I actually want to grow? And what one aligned action can I take this week to plant something true?

I’d love to hear what’s coming up for you. Drop it in the comments — or come practice with me this week as we move through these ideas on and off the mat.

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Why I Modified My Yoga Practice: Learning to Listen to My Body

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Many people believe yoga is about perfect poses. In reality, yoga is about listening to the body. Over time, injuries, pain, or life changes may ask us to modify how we practice. These adjustments are not limitations—they are invitations to practice with greater awareness and compassion.

Modifying a pose isn’t giving up on yoga.
It’s practicing yoga.”

After years of teaching and practicing yoga, and navigating multiple hip surgeries, I’ve had to relearn how to listen to my body. Some poses look different now. Some movements are slower. Some days the practice is simply breathing and noticing.

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And surprisingly, that shift has brought me closer to yoga, not further away from it.

Listening to the Body Is Yoga

In yoga philosophy, awareness is more important than performance.

When we push past our body’s signals, we move further away from that awareness. But when we pause, modify, or adjust a pose to support what the body needs today, we begin practicing something deeper.

We begin practicing svadyaya — self-study.

This kind of practice invites curiosity:

• What sensations am I feeling?
• Where is there effort?
• Where is there ease?

Over time, these small observations create a practice that is sustainable, compassionate, and deeply personal.

A Small Change That Made a Big Difference

In this short reel, I share one simple example of how my yoga practice has changed. Instead of forcing the traditional version of a pose, I’ve learned to use props and adjustments that support my body.

Listening to the body isn’t weakness.

It’s wisdom.

Yoga evolves with us.

Our bodies change. Our lives change. Our energy changes.

The practice isn’t about doing yoga the way we used to—it’s about meeting ourselves exactly where we are today.

Sometimes the most powerful pose we can take is the one that says:

I’m listening.

This kind of awareness reflects the yogic practice of svadyaya, or self-study. Read more here!

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What Is Svadyaya? A Yoga Teacher’s Guide to the Practice of Self-Study

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Svadyaya is one of yoga’s most powerful practices for developing self-awareness. In this guide we’ll explore what svadyaya means in the Yoga Sutras, how it differs from self-criticism, and simple ways to practice it in everyday life.

What Is Svadyaya? A Yoga Teacher’s Guide to Self-Study

In yoga philosophy, svadyaya is often translated as self-study.

But it is not self-criticism.
It is not overthinking.
And it is definitely not judging yourself.

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Svadyaya is the gentle art of getting curious about your own patterns, reactions, thoughts, and habits — with compassion rather than criticism.

In a world that constantly tells us to improve, optimize, and “fix” ourselves, svadyaya offers something very different:

A way to understand ourselves more deeply without trying to change who we are.

For caregivers, yoga beginners, and anyone navigating stress, pain, or life transitions, svadyaya can become a powerful practice of clarity, resilience, and self-compassion.

In this guide, we’ll explore what svadyaya really means in yoga philosophy, how it differs from self-criticism, and simple ways you can begin practicing it today.

Svadyaya in the Yoga Sutras — What Patanjali Actually Said

The concept of svadyaya comes from the Yoga Sutras, a foundational text of yoga philosophy written by the sage Patanjali.

Svadyaya appears in the second chapter of the Yoga Sutras as one of the Niyamas, or personal observances.

These five inner practices are:

• Saucha — purity or clarity
• Santosha — contentment
• Tapas — disciplined effort
• Svadyaya — self-study
• Ishvara Pranidhana — surrender to something greater

Traditionally, svadyaya had two meanings:

  1. Studying sacred texts or teachings
  2. Studying yourself

In modern practice, many yoga teachers focus on the second meaning — the ongoing process of observing your inner world.

Svadyaya asks questions like:

  • What patterns keep repeating in my life?
  • What sensations arise in my body when I feel stressed?
  • How do I respond when something doesn’t go my way?
  • What beliefs might be shaping my reactions?

Instead of judging what we find, svadyaya invites us to simply notice.

Over time, that noticing becomes wisdom.

The Difference Between Self-Criticism and Self-Study

Many people hear “self-study” and immediately think of analyzing themselves.

But svadyaya is very different from self-criticism.

Self-criticism sounds like this:

  • “Why am I like this?”
  • “I should be better at this.”
  • “Everyone else handles this better than I do.”

Self-study sounds more like this:

  • “That reaction surprised me — I wonder why.”
  • “My body feels tense right now.”
  • “I notice I tend to rush when I feel overwhelmed.”

One voice is harsh and judgmental.
The other is curious and compassionate.

Self-criticism shuts down awareness.
Svadyaya expands it.

When we practice svadyaya, we become observers of our experience instead of harsh judges of it.

This shift alone can be incredibly healing.

How I Practice Svadyaya with Chronic Pain

For me, svadyaya became much more than a philosophical idea.

It became a survival tool.

Over the past several years I have been navigating significant hip injuries and multiple surgeries. Living with chronic pain changes the way you experience your body, your energy, and even your identity.

Yoga used to feel simple: move, breathe, teach.

Pain made everything more complicated.

At first, my inner voice sounded like self-criticism:

“Why can’t I do what I used to do?”

“Why is this happening?”

“Why is recovery taking so long?”

But slowly, through mindfulness and svadyaya, something shifted.

Instead of judging my body, I started studying it.

I began noticing:

  • Which movements created ease
  • When pain increased during the day
  • How stress affected inflammation
  • What emotions surfaced alongside physical discomfort

This kind of awareness didn’t fix everything overnight.

But it did something powerful.

It replaced frustration with understanding.

Svadyaya allowed me to meet my body where it was instead of constantly wishing it were somewhere else.

For anyone living with pain, illness, or physical limitations, this kind of compassionate awareness can be a profound form of healing.

3 Simple Svadyaya Practices Anyone Can Try Today

The beauty of svadyaya is that it doesn’t require special training, long meditation sessions, or perfect yoga poses.

It begins with small moments of awareness.

Here are three simple ways to practice svadyaya in everyday life.

1. The Curiosity Pause

When you notice a strong reaction — frustration, irritation, anxiety — pause for a moment and ask:

“What am I feeling right now?”

Then ask:

“Where do I feel it in my body?”

Maybe your shoulders are tight.
Maybe your jaw is clenched.
Maybe your breath has become shallow.

This is svadyaya in action — simply observing your internal experience.

2. Reflective Journaling

Writing can be one of the most powerful tools for self-study.

At the end of the day, try asking yourself a simple question like:

  • What challenged me today?
  • What gave me energy?
  • What surprised me about my reactions?

You don’t need long answers. Even a few sentences can reveal patterns over time.

3. Mindful Movement

Yoga practice itself can be a powerful form of svadyaya.

Instead of focusing on achieving the “perfect” pose, try asking:

  • How does this movement feel today?
  • Where do I feel effort?
  • Where do I feel ease?

When movement becomes exploration rather than performance, it becomes self-study.

Svadyaya as a Caregiver — Why Self-Awareness Is a Professional Skill

For caregivers, teachers, healthcare workers, and wellness professionals, svadyaya isn’t just a personal practice.

It’s a professional one.

When we care for others, we carry emotional energy that often goes unnoticed.

Without self-awareness, this can lead to:

  • burnout
  • compassion fatigue
  • emotional overwhelm

Svadyaya helps caregivers notice early signs of stress before they become exhaustion.

For example, self-study might reveal:

  • “I feel drained after certain interactions.”
  • “I tend to skip breaks when things get busy.”
  • “My body feels tense at the end of the day.”

This awareness allows caregivers to make small adjustments that protect their well-being.

In the adaptive yoga work I’ve done with people living with neurological conditions, I often remind new teachers:

Your presence matters as much as your technique.

Svadyaya helps us show up more fully — and more sustainably — for the people we serve.

Connecting Svadyaya to Our Month of Clearing

In our community this month, we are exploring the theme of clearing.

Clearing doesn’t only mean decluttering physical space.

It also means gently clearing the habits, thoughts, and patterns that no longer serve us.

Svadyaya is the practice that helps us see those patterns clearly.

When we slow down enough to observe ourselves, we may notice things like:

  • rushing through the day without breathing
  • reacting quickly instead of responding thoughtfully
  • holding tension in the body without realizing it

Awareness is the first step toward change.

Without svadyaya, patterns remain invisible.

With svadyaya, they become opportunities for growth.

The Quiet Power of Self-Study

Svadyaya is not dramatic.

It doesn’t usually happen in big breakthrough moments.

Instead, it unfolds quietly through small observations:

Noticing your breath.

Recognizing a reaction.

Understanding a pattern.

Over time, those small moments of awareness begin to reshape the way you move through the world.

You become less reactive.

More compassionate.

More curious.

And perhaps most importantly, more accepting of your own humanity.

That is the quiet power of svadyaya.

Not perfection.

Just understanding.

Try a Gentle Svadyaya Yoga Practice

If you’d like to explore svadyaya through movement, I recorded a gentle yoga practice focused on curiosity, breath, and body awareness. Watch it here.

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Svadyaya often pairs beautifully with saucha, the yogic practice of inner and outer clarity. Read the post about clearing here.
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Somatic Hug: A Simple Self-Regulation Technique for Stress Relief

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The Somatic Hug: A Simple Way to Calm Your Nervous System

Sometimes the most powerful calming practices are also the simplest.

One of my favorite techniques for helping the body settle and the nervous system regulate is something called the Somatic Hug.

It takes less than a minute, requires no equipment, and can be done almost anywhere. This gentle practice helps bring awareness back into the body while offering a sense of safety and support.

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When life feels overwhelming, even small moments of self-connection can make a meaningful difference.

What Is a Somatic Hug?

A somatic hug is a self-soothing practice where you wrap your arms around yourself and gently tap or hold your upper arms.

This simple action sends signals of safety to the nervous system. Through touch, rhythm, and breath, the body begins to shift from a state of stress toward one of calm.

Somatic practices focus on body awareness rather than thinking our way through stress. They help us reconnect with physical sensations, which is often where true regulation begins.

How to Practice the Somatic Hug

You can try this practice seated, standing, or even lying down.

Step 1: Cross Your Arms

Place your right hand on your left upper arm and your left hand on your right upper arm, creating a gentle self-hug.

Step 2: Soften Your Shoulders

Let your shoulders relax and allow the arms to rest comfortably against your body.

Step 3: Begin Gentle Tapping

Slowly alternate tapping your hands on your arms. The movement should feel soft and rhythmic, almost like a slow heartbeat.

Step 4: Breathe Naturally

Allow your breath to be slow and easy as you continue tapping for 30–60 seconds.

You may notice your body beginning to soften or your breath naturally slowing.

Why This Practice Works

The somatic hug engages several calming mechanisms in the body:

• Touch provides grounding sensory input
• Rhythm helps regulate the nervous system
• Crossing the midline of the body supports brain integration
• Breath awareness naturally slows the stress response

Together, these elements help the body move out of a fight-or-flight state and toward a more balanced, regulated state.

When to Use the Somatic Hug

This practice can be helpful anytime you feel overwhelmed or disconnected.

Try it:

  • Before a stressful conversation
  • When anxiety starts to rise
  • During moments of emotional overwhelm
  • Before sleep to help the body unwind
  • As part of a mindfulness or meditation practice

Because it is so gentle and accessible, it can also be helpful for people recovering from illness, injury, or periods of prolonged stress.

A Moment of Self-Compassion

There is something deeply meaningful about offering comfort to ourselves.

The somatic hug reminds us that regulation doesn’t always require complicated techniques. Sometimes it begins with a simple pause, a breath, and the supportive presence of our own touch.

Even one minute can help the body remember what calm feels like.

Place your arms around yourself today and take a few slow breaths.

You deserve moments of gentleness.

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Easy Lemon Coconut Scones – A Bright & Buttery Spring Recipe

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Spring invites lighter, brighter flavors into the kitchen, and lemon is one of the most refreshing ways to celebrate the season. When paired with coconut, it creates a subtle tropical sweetness that feels both comforting and uplifting.

These lemon coconut scones are tender, lightly sweet, and filled with fresh citrus flavor and delicate coconut. They’re perfect with morning tea, a quiet afternoon break, or shared with friends on a sunny spring day.

Baking them can also be a small moment of mindfulness—zesting the lemon, mixing the dough, and enjoying the warm scent of citrus and coconut filling the kitchen.

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Ingredients

2 cups all-purpose flour
1 cup sugar
1 tablespoon baking powder
½ teaspoon salt

½ cup cold unsalted butter, cubed

1 tablespoon fresh lemon zest
2 tablespoons fresh lemon juice

½ cup shredded coconut (sweetened or unsweetened)

¾ cup heavy cream

1 teaspoon vanilla extract

Optional: coarse sugar for topping

Instructions

1. Preheat the oven
Preheat oven to 400°F (200°C). Line a baking sheet with parchment paper.

2. Mix dry ingredients
In a large bowl whisk together flour, sugar, baking powder, and salt.

3. Cut in the butter
Add the cold butter and cut into the flour mixture using a pastry cutter or fingertips until it resembles coarse crumbs.

4. Add flavor
Stir in the lemon zest and shredded coconut.

5. Mix wet ingredients
In a separate bowl combine the cream, lemon juice, and vanilla.

6. Combine
Pour wet ingredients into dry ingredients and stir until just combined. Avoid overmixing.

7. Shape the dough
Turn the dough onto a lightly floured surface and gently form into a circle about 1 inch thick. Cut into 8 wedges.

8. Bake
Place on baking sheet and sprinkle lightly with coarse sugar if desired. Bake 15–18 minutes, until lightly golden.

Optional Lemon Coconut Glaze

For a slightly sweet finish:

1 cup powdered sugar
1–2 tablespoons lemon juice
1 tablespoon coconut milk (optional)

Drizzle over cooled scones and sprinkle lightly with coconut.

A Mindful Kitchen Moment

While the scones bake, pause for a moment.

Notice the bright scent of lemon and the warmth filling the kitchen.
Take a slow breath.
Let this small moment be enough.

Sometimes the most nourishing moments of the day are the quiet ones.

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Mindful Self-Regulation for Brain Injury Professionals: Yoga & Mindfulness Strategies

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Professionals who work with individuals living with brain injuries carry a profound responsibility. Supporting clients through cognitive, emotional, and physical challenges requires patience, compassion, and resilience.

Yet the work can also be demanding. Over time, stress, emotional fatigue, and nervous system overload can impact even the most dedicated professionals.

Mindful self-regulation offers a practical and accessible way to restore balance.

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By integrating simple yoga and mindfulness practices into daily routines, professionals can support their own nervous system while modeling effective coping strategies for the individuals they serve.

What is Self-Regulation?

Self-regulation refers to our ability to manage our thoughts, emotions, and physiological responses during stressful or challenging situations.

For brain injury professionals, this might include:

• Staying calm during a client’s emotional escalation
• Regulating frustration during slow recovery progress
• Maintaining focus during cognitively demanding work
• Preventing burnout from long-term caregiving

When we strengthen our own self-regulation, we create a more stable and supportive environment for those in our care.

Why Mindfulness and Yoga Matter

Yoga and mindfulness practices help regulate the nervous system by shifting the body out of a stress response and into a more balanced state.

These practices can:

• Reduce stress and emotional overwhelm
• Improve focus and mental clarity
• Support emotional resilience
• Encourage compassionate presence

Importantly, these techniques do not require long sessions or specialized equipment. Even brief practices can have meaningful impact.

Practical Strategies for Daily Self-Regulation

Here are several simple techniques that brain injury professionals can incorporate into their day.

1. Grounding Through Breath

Taking slow, intentional breaths can help calm the nervous system during moments of stress.

Try this:

• Inhale slowly through the nose
• Exhale gently through the mouth
• Repeat for 4–6 breaths

This brief pause can help reset the nervous system and restore clarity.

2. The Power of Pausing

In demanding environments, we often move quickly from one task to the next. A mindful pause can interrupt the cycle of stress.

Even 30 seconds of awareness—feeling your feet on the floor or noticing your breath—can help bring the nervous system back to balance.

3. Gentle Movement

Simple yoga-based movements can release physical tension that accumulates throughout the day.

Examples include:

• Shoulder rolls
• Neck stretches
• Standing stretches
• Seated spinal twists

These small movements help reconnect the body and mind.

4. Compassion for Yourself

Professionals who care deeply for others sometimes forget to extend that same compassion to themselves.

Self-regulation is not about being perfect. It is about recognizing when you need support and giving yourself permission to reset.

Supporting the Caregiver Supports the Client

When professionals learn to regulate their own nervous systems, they create a calmer and more supportive therapeutic environment.

Clients often respond not only to what we say, but to the emotional tone we bring into the room.

By cultivating mindfulness and self-awareness, we strengthen our ability to remain grounded, compassionate, and present.

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In this conference presentation, I share practical strategies and insights for supporting self-regulation through yoga and mindfulness in professional caregiving environments.

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Final Thoughts

Mindful self-regulation is not another task to add to an already full schedule. It is a way of working that supports both the professional and the individuals they serve.

Small moments of awareness, breath, and movement can create powerful shifts in well-being—both for caregivers and for those in their care.

Stacie Wyatt, CBIS, E-RYT 500, is the Founder and Director of Embracing Spirit Yoga and Wellness in Colorado Springs, Colorado. With nearly two decades of experience at the intersection of mindfulness, movement, and behavioral health, Stacie is recognized for her work in making yoga and mindfulness accessible, therapeutic, and trauma-informed for individuals with neurological conditions, brain injury, and those living in assisted and supportive care environments.

Stacie is a Certified Brain Injury Specialist (CBIS), an Experienced Registered Yoga Teacher (E-RYT 500), a Behavioral Health and Wellness Coach, and a Qualified Behavioral Health Assistant (QBHA). Her professional background uniquely bridges clinical understanding with compassionate, body-based practices, allowing her to translate complex neurophysiological concepts into practical tools that support self-regulation, resilience, and emotional well-being. She has spent many years working directly with individuals affected by brain injury, neurological disorders, chronic illness, and aging-related challenges, as well as training and mentoring caregivers, healthcare professionals, and yoga teachers.

Through Embracing Spirit Yoga and Wellness, Stacie develops and delivers workshops, trainings, and educational programs that integrate adaptive yoga, mindful movement, breathwork, and meditation into rehabilitation, behavioral health, and assisted living settings. Her approach emphasizes safety, choice, and accessibility, ensuring practices can be adapted for a wide range of physical, cognitive, and emotional needs. She is particularly passionate about mindful self-regulation strategies that support both clients and care providers, recognizing the importance of preventing burnout and fostering sustainable, compassionate care.

March Mindful Clearing Diffuser Blend

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March Mindful Clearing Diffuser Blend

Purpose: Refresh your space, support clarity, and invite spring energy.

Ingredients / Essential Oils

  • 3 drops Eucalyptus – clears the air and supports focus
  • 3 drops Lemon – uplifting, energizing, and cleansing
  • 2 drops Lavender – calming and soothing
  • 2 drops Rosemary – grounding and clarifying

(Optional: 1 drop Peppermint for extra clarity and freshness)

Instructions

  1. Add oils to your diffuser with the recommended amount of water.
  2. Diffuse for 30–60 minutes while doing gentle yoga, meditation, or a mindful walk around your home.
  3. Inhale deeply and visualize clearing clutter from your mind, body, and space.

Soulful Tip

Light a candle nearby and take a moment to set a personal intention:
“I release what no longer serves me and welcome clarity, calm, and new growth.”

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Spring Herb Sourdough Focaccia | Easy March Recipe

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Spring Herb Sourdough Focaccia

Fluffy, golden, and fragrant with early spring herbs.

Ingredients

  • 1 cup active sourdough starter
  • 2 ½ cups all-purpose flour
  • ¾ cup water (warm)
  • 2 tbsp olive oil + more for drizzling
  • 1 tsp salt
  • 1 tsp sugar or honey (optional, for browning)
  • 2–3 tsp fresh herbs: rosemary, thyme, or parsley
  • Optional: thinly sliced shallots or spring onions

Instructions

  1. Mix dough: In a large bowl, combine sourdough starter, water, olive oil, and sugar (if using). Add flour and salt, and stir until a sticky dough forms.
  2. First rise: Cover and let rest 3–4 hours at room temp, or until doubled.
  3. Prepare pan: Drizzle a baking pan or sheet with olive oil. Gently press the dough into the pan, stretching it to fit.
  4. Dimple & season: Use fingertips to press dimples across the surface. Drizzle with olive oil, sprinkle herbs, salt, and optional shallots.
  5. Second rise: Let dough rest 30–45 minutes while oven preheats to 425°F (220°C).
  6. Bake: Bake 20–25 minutes until golden and fragrant. Cool slightly before slicing.

? Fun March twist: Press a few tiny edible flowers (like violets or nasturtium) into the top after baking for a subtle, springtime touch.

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Clearing as Practice: A Mindful March Reset

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Clearing as Practice: A Mindful March with Embracing Spirit Yoga

March invites us into transition.

Winter begins to loosen its grip. Light stretches a little longer. The earth softens. And something within us whispers:

Clear what no longer serves.

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This month at Embracing Spirit Yoga, our theme is:

Clearing as Practice

Not as punishment.
Not as perfection.
But as devotion.

Clearing is not about becoming someone new.
It is about remembering who you already are beneath the clutter — physically, emotionally, spiritually.

What Does “Clearing as Practice” Mean?

In yoga philosophy, this echoes:

  • Saucha — purification, clarity, sacred cleanliness
  • Tapas — disciplined, loving effort
  • Svadhyaya — self-study and inner reflection

But beyond philosophy, clearing is deeply human.

It might look like:

  • Clearing a drawer.
  • Clearing a calendar.
  • Clearing a resentment.
  • Clearing self-doubt.
  • Clearing physical tension from the body through mindful movement.

For those of us navigating healing, chronic pain, or recovery (as I am in this season), clearing becomes even more sacred.

We clear what we can.
We soften what we cannot.
We practice patience.

Why Clearing Supports Mental and Emotional Wellness

When we clear physical space, we create mental space.

Research consistently shows that clutter increases cortisol levels and mental overwhelm. Gentle organization and mindful routines can:

  • Reduce stress and anxiety
  • Improve focus and clarity
  • Support emotional regulation
  • Increase feelings of control and calm

Clearing is nervous system care.

And it doesn’t require dramatic change.
It begins with one breath. One drawer. One compassionate choice.

Clearing the Body Through Gentle Yoga

In adaptive yoga — especially for seniors and those with neurological conditions — clearing looks like:

  • Releasing tension through breath awareness
  • Gentle joint mobility
  • Slow, supported stretching
  • Reconnecting to the body with kindness

We clear stagnation.
We clear fear.
We clear the story that says “I can’t.”

Movement becomes medicine.
Awareness becomes healing.

Your March Invitation

Each week this month, we will explore clearing through:

  1. Physical space
  2. Emotional release
  3. Mental clarity
  4. Spiritual alignment
  5. A bonus integration week

You do not need to overhaul your life.

Simply begin.

Clear one corner.
Clear one thought.
Clear one breath.

And let that be enough.

A Reflection for You

Where in your life are you ready to create space?

Not because you “should.”
But because your spirit is asking.

Sit with that question.

Breathe.

And trust that small, steady clearing leads to spacious living.

Affirmation for March

I gently release what no longer supports my growth. I create space for light, clarity, and peace.

If this resonates, follow along this month at Embracing Spirit Yoga for mindful practices, reflections, and gentle guidance rooted in compassion and accessibility.

March is not about force.

It is about softening, clearing, and remembering.

And I am walking this path with you.

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From “Have To” to “Choose To”: Reclaiming Your Power

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From “Have To” to “Choose To”: Reclaiming Your Power

I caught myself the other day saying it.

“I have to do this real fast.”
“I have to get this done.”
“I have to show up.”

Have to.
Have to.
Have to.

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The words were coming out automatically — rushed, tight, urgent.

And I paused.

Who, exactly, is telling me I have to do anything?

The question stopped me.

Because most of the time, no one is standing over us demanding.
There isn’t an emergency.
There isn’t a threat.

There is simply a story running in the background — one we’ve repeated so often it sounds like truth.

The Energy of “Have To”

“Have to” carries weight.

It feels heavy.
Contracted.
Pressured.

It activates the nervous system as if something is chasing us.

It subtly removes our agency.

When I say “I have to,” my body tightens. My breath shortens. My mind rushes ahead.

But when I pause and ask,
Do I really have to?
something shifts.

Because the honest answer is almost always:

No.
I am choosing to.

The Power of “Choose To”

What if instead of “I have to write this,”
we said, “I am choosing to write this”?

Instead of “I have to go to work,”
“I am choosing to go to work.”

Instead of “I have to exercise,”
“I am choosing to move my body.”

The external action may not change.

But the internal experience does.

“Choose to” restores authorship.

It reminds us that even within responsibility, there is choice.

We choose to work because we value stability.
We choose to show up because we care.
We choose to rest because we respect our body.

Choice softens resistance.
Choice invites alignment.

Choice creates spaciousness.

Getting Curious About the Voice

The next time you hear yourself say “have to,” try this:

Pause.

Ask gently:

  • Who is telling me I have to?
  • Is this urgency real or imagined?
  • What would it feel like to say “I am choosing to…” instead?

Sometimes the voice behind “have to” is old conditioning.
Sometimes it’s fear of disappointing others.
Sometimes it’s perfectionism whispering that rest isn’t allowed.

Curiosity loosens the grip.

There is no need to shame yourself for the language. Just notice it.

Awareness is the shift.

When “Have To” Might Actually Be True

There are realities in life. Responsibilities. Commitments. Consequences.

But even then, there is still choice.

You may choose to pay the bill.
Choose to attend the appointment.
Choose to follow through.

Or you may choose differently — and accept what follows.

Choice does not remove responsibility.
It restores integrity.

A Gentle Practice

For one day, notice every time you say “have to.”

Don’t correct it immediately.

Just observe.

Then, when it feels natural, experiment with replacing it:

“I am choosing to…”

Notice your breath.
Notice your posture.
Notice the subtle return of power.

A Closing Reflection

You do not have to live in urgency.

You do not have to obey every internal demand.

You do not have to surrender your agency to old patterns of speech.

You are allowed to choose your life — moment by moment.

Even in the smallest things.

And sometimes the most radical shift begins with changing just two words.

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When Fear Is Wisdom: How to Trust Your Intuition

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When Fear Is Wisdom: Learning to Listen Instead of Override

We talk a lot about courage.

We celebrate pushing through.
Moving forward anyway.
Not letting fear “win.”

But what if sometimes fear isn’t the enemy?

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What if fear is information?

Recently, I experienced a significant wave of fear — the kind that sits heavily in your chest. The kind that doesn’t dissolve with a few deep breaths. The kind that keeps whispering, Pay attention.

My first instinct was to question it.

Was I overreacting?
Projecting?
Letting old experiences color the present?

But something felt different.

This wasn’t frantic, catastrophic fear.
It was steady. Grounded. Clear.

It wasn’t loud.
It was wise.

And when I truly paused — not just physically, but internally — I realized something important:

My intuition had already known.

The fear wasn’t creating a story.
It was an illuminating truth I hadn’t fully acknowledged.

Not All Fear Is the Same

There is fear that protects us.
There is fear that grows us.
And there is fear that comes from old wounds.

The key isn’t eliminating fear.
The key is discerning it.

Anxiety tends to feel frantic and future-based.
Intuitive fear feels steady and present.

Anxiety spirals.
Intuition repeats quietly.

Anxiety demands urgency.
Intuition invites pause.

When I stopped trying to override what I was feeling and instead became curious, my body softened. The message became clearer.

Pause.
Look again.
Trust yourself.

Healthy Ways to Address Fear

Fear does not need to be shamed or suppressed. It needs to be met with awareness.

Here are practices that help me respond wisely:

1. Pause Before Taking Action

If possible, avoid making immediate decisions while activated. Give your nervous system time to settle before responding.

2. Check the Body

Where do you feel it?
Tight chest and racing thoughts?
Or a grounded knowing in your gut?

The body often recognizes truth before the mind articulates it.

3. Ask: Is This Protective or Expansive?

Protective fear says, “This isn’t safe.”
Expansive fear says, “This is growth.”

Protective fear feels constricting but clear.
Expansive fear feels stretching but aligned.

4. Remove the Noise

Step away from outside opinions. Too many voices can distort clarity. Intuition often requires quiet.

5. Notice Repetition

If the same concern keeps resurfacing gently and consistently, it deserves your attention.

Knowing When to Pause

We do not “have” to move forward simply because something is scheduled.
We do not “have” to proceed just because we committed.
We do not “have” to ignore our inner alarm to prove we are strong.

Sometimes strength is the pause.

Sometimes wisdom is saying, “Not yet.”

And sometimes fear is simply the body’s way of protecting the life you’ve worked hard to rebuild.

Listening to fear does not make us weak.

It makes us aligned.

It makes us responsive instead of reactive.

It builds the most important trust of all — the trust we have with ourselves.

Gentle Reflection

Take a quiet moment and ask:

Where in my life is fear asking me to pay attention?
Is this anxiety… or wisdom?

Let the answer come softly.

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Protein Baked Oatmeal Cups with Banana & Chocolate

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Protein Baked Oatmeal Cups with Banana & Chocolate

There is something deeply comforting about warm oats.

Simple ingredients.
One bowl.
Nourishment you can hold in your hand.

These baked oatmeal cups came together on a day when I wanted something easy, protein-rich, and supportive — something that felt both grounding and energizing.

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They are lightly sweet from banana, gently spiced with cinnamon, and balanced with protein and peanut butter for staying power.

Perfect for breakfast, a mid-afternoon snack, or something steady before teaching or recording.

Ingredients

  • 2 ripe bananas, mashed
  • 2 cups old-fashioned oats
  • 2 eggs
  • 1 scoop Naked Whey protein powder (vanilla)
  • 1 cup unsweetened almond milk
  • 2 tablespoons powdered peanut butter
  • 1 teaspoon cinnamon
  • ¼ cup mini chocolate chips
  • unsweetened coconut flakes to sprinkle on top

Instructions

  1. Preheat oven to 350°F.
  2. Line or lightly grease a muffin tin.
  3. In a large bowl, mash the bananas until smooth.
  4. Add eggs and whisk until fully combined.
  5. Stir in almond milk, protein powder, powdered peanut butter, and cinnamon.
  6. Fold in oats and mini chocolate chips.
  7. Divide evenly into muffin cups, filling each about ¾ full.
  8. Bake for 18–22 minutes, or until set and lightly golden.
  9. Allow to cool for 5–10 minutes before removing.

Makes approximately 10–12 oatmeal cups.

Why I Love These

  • Balanced protein + fiber for sustained energy
  • Naturally sweetened with banana
  • Easy to prepare ahead for the week
  • Freezer-friendly
  • Adaptable to what you have on hand

They store beautifully in the refrigerator for up to 5 days. You can also freeze them and reheat gently in the microwave or toaster oven.

Gentle Variations

  • Add chopped walnuts for crunch
  • Swap chocolate chips for blueberries
  • Add a pinch of sea salt for contrast
  • Drizzle with almond butter before serving

A Mindful Nourishment Reflection

Food does not have to be complicated to be supportive.

Sometimes nourishment is simply combining what you have — thoughtfully.

Simple ingredients.
Steady energy.
A small act of care.

Because we don’t “have to” overcomplicate wellness.

We can choose simple.

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